Video game addiction tearing families apart

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Updated: 5/06/2011 9:17 am
SAN ANTONIO -- Video games used to be known as child's play. But now, more and more adults are getting hooked. They're sacrificing their jobs, families, and friends to spend all of their time online.

Janet Hunt loves spending time with her husband Don. But a year ago, he had no time for her, only his video game.

"Sometimes he could play up to 20 hours straight," Janet told us. "He could be on there by 6:00 a.m. and by the time that 3:00 a.m. or 4:00 a.m that night rolled around, he could still be sitting there playing."

"It's just total immersion into the game, as your reality, instead of the real reality," said former video game addict Donald Hunt.

The addiction got so bad, Don lost his job and Janet filed for divorce.

"It was lonely. It was real lonely," recalled Janet. "And it felt like I was like a widow, that I had lost my other half and just, I felt alone all the time."

Janet's story is all too familiar to Ryan Van Cleave, author of the video game addiction book "Unplugged." He says more and more adults are becoming consumed by the games, and the consequences can be grave.

"They're killing careers, they're killing families, they're killing relationships, they're killing health," explained Ryan. "And, literally, now we're having people killing others and themselves over video games."

How bad can it get? Police removed six children from the home of a mother in Pennsylvania after finding them living in filth and animal waste. The kids' stepfather says the mom was too addicted to games to care for the children. A Denver mother admitted she was playing an online Facebook game when her one-year-old son drowned in the bathtub.

"Relationships fail and divorces happen," said Douglas Gentile, Associate Professor of Psychology at Iowa State University. "And I've even heard of people - they don't want to leave the computer so much, that they take every meal at the computer and then they wear diapers, so they don't even have to go to the bathroom."

Janet's husband was finally able to break his video game addiction, and they got back together. They are now working to get back on track, both emotionally and financially.
 
"Life now is good. I have my husband back. I have my best friend back," Janet told us.

Games like World of Warcraft and Halo aren't the only ones causing a problem. Experts say even so-called casual games like those you might find on Facebook can become just as addicting.
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metalhead - 5/13/2011 11:37 AM
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LEEEROOOYY JEEENNNKKIIINNNSSS!!! at least i have chicken

bbap08 - 5/8/2011 10:09 AM
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Video games do not cause addictions. People with addictive personalities find things to be hooked on, and video games just happen to be one of them. I really with people would pull on their big kid pants and start taking responsibility for their own actions rather than blaming everything else around them.

Gecko - 5/7/2011 12:31 PM
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Cell phone addiction is just as bad. How many people that have cell phones can go a whole week without one on them? I get a kick out of these dysfunctional people that take breaks at work smoking outside and talking on their cell phone at the same time. Two addictions while multi-tasking!

ChimichangaS - 5/7/2011 9:58 AM
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Golf Nut - Simple minded people vote for Sarah Palin because she's pretty, never mind that she QUIT on the people who voted for her in the middle of her term . I would vote for Mitch Daniels of Indiana if he were running.

golfnut - 5/7/2011 7:47 AM
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i wonder if these simple minded people are the ones whom vote for obama. people it is called an off switch!!! hey! instead of paying money to doctors, just throw the crap machine in the garbage!!! people please!!!!

roll22 - 5/7/2011 1:18 AM
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There is more out there to do than just sit on the couch and play with the wiis.

Leeroy Jenkins - 5/6/2011 7:14 PM
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I like the fact that these hear video games keeps the kids off the streets, and more importantly, off my lawn. I don't hear no basketballs anymore, because they are all sitting on the couch playing with their wiis.

whatsnew - 5/6/2011 4:56 PM
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NBTEX, the computer probably wasn't even on, she probably didn't want to be with you.

NBTEX - 5/6/2011 3:49 PM
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i was living with this gal who loved to play games,it was so bad she would bring the laptop to bed and she would watch the game not me...this went on for two months and i got fed up with it and left her,she lost her job,and her son even got mad cause she did not spend anytime with him..its so sad to watch this... i really could not belive she would bring the laptop in bed with us...heck i would rather watch porn and do my self!!!! what a pos she was and is.....Yvonnie if you read this kiss my white butt!!!

simpsonfan91 - 5/6/2011 3:23 PM
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Warior007-I don't agree with that. Addiction is addiction. A symptom of addiction is that you forgo EVERYTHING else in order to do or get what you want. The addict doesn't really think about how their actions effect others in their life. A person becomes irrational in order to pursue the "addiction", be it drugs, games, FaceBook, sex, anything. A person could be addicted to church if they take the extreme and just forget about their family responsibilities so they can go to church. Everything in moderation...even gaming. Like I said, addiction is addiction. The family the addict is ignoring so that they can game don't know if they're gaming or snorting blow. All they know is the addict isn't taking care of their responsibilities.
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