Marriage Formula: Experts say they've found the science behind soulmates

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Updated: 3/26/2010 2:55 pm
Dawn Timmeney of WCAU for NBC News Channel:

PHILADELPHIA -- Your wedding day is usually one of the happiest days of your life, but how can you be sure the relationship will stand the test of time?

A group of Swiss statisticians has come up with a very unromantic formula to determine whether your marriage will last. According to a study of over 1000 married or co-habitating couples, the ideal wife would be five years younger, come from the same cultural background and be 27 percent smarter than her husband.

By following these guidelines, the researchers say you could increase you're chances of having a happy marriage by up to 20-percent.

The Swiss formula seems to add up for Celia and Robert Sullivan have been together for years. Celia is six years younger, and Robert says she's no dummy.

"She is a very smart person, smart enough to marry me and stay with me all this time," says Robert.

"I think it is interesting from the point of view of a mathematical mode, but in some senses Yeah I think it is baloney," says Dr. Sara Corse from the Council for Relationships.

She adds that men may be attracted to someone who is younger or smarter, or comes from a similar background, but says those factors aren't a "formula" for success. She says what you should look for is love, chemistry, friendship, and similar values.

"There's no magic formula. There's no one secret. Relationships are hard, they are extremely rewarding, but you also have to work at them," says Dr. Corse.
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hamjeepr - 3/29/2010 6:37 PM
There is no "scientific" reason behind life-long marriage. The only successful marriage is one that has 3 parts - Husband, Wife, and GOD!

pdunk - 3/29/2010 6:35 PM
My perfect matches are Fergie and Shakira and they don't meet these guidelines... lol

lenny66 - 3/29/2010 4:02 PM
SS, I believe it. Keep an eye on the balance. :-0

my4kids - 3/29/2010 3:57 PM
My spouse is 11 years older than I, same race and I am probably more than 27% smarter than he. He has it easy, I take care of the kids and the bills, he takes care of bringing home the bacon. Good enough for me.

Superspurs - 3/29/2010 2:40 PM
Lenny, my younger hottie wife married me because I have a BIG.......account.

lenny66 - 3/29/2010 2:27 PM
An old saying I read in a bar in Amsterdam: No matter how beautiful she may be, somebody, somewhere is sick of her s**t. As for older men and younger women: The only looks that really matter is how the bank account looks.

machacado - 3/29/2010 11:25 AM
i prefer an earthmate that is the same age. that way she can't spend 15 years dating other guys while living off my pension like superspurs wife will.

machacado - 3/29/2010 11:22 AM
what if your soul mate is on a distant planet? otherwise it's just an earth mate.

Superspurs - 3/29/2010 10:46 AM
My wife is 15 years younger than me, not my race, and is not 27% smarter than me and we have been married 16 years. So the hell with this Formula.

taurus - 3/28/2010 4:14 PM
I guess if you marry a "cougar" it won't last.
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