Life After War: Wounded warrior struggles to support family

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Updated: 4/01/2011 6:34 am
SAN ANTONIO -- A pilot program aimed at speeding up disability benefits for wounded warriors will soon roll out into the entire military.  Currently, soldiers injured at war often wait months on end for their V.A. compensation.  News 4 WOAI spoke with the family of one military hero who is now stretching out paychecks to survive.

"It's really hard," commented Vena Sele, a medically retired Army Staff Sergeant.  "Sometimes I just don't want to wake up."

Life will never be the same for the Sele family.  While serving in Iraq, Vena was hit with an I.E.D. suicide bomb and suffered severe burns on his face and body.  But the wounds to his flesh are not deeper than the wounds to his family.

Vena's wife Leti would have never thought that the men who go off and fight for our country could struggle so hard when they return home.

"I'm going on my second year looking for work," explained Leti.

After four months without any income, her disabled husband's veteran benefits finally kicked in.  But it's just over half of what he was earning as an active duty soldier... and barely enough to support their family of five. 

Leti has been desperately trying to find a job, without any luck.  "My husband didn't get hurt for nothing," said Leti.  "My dream is to find a government job.  I have college degrees, and I want to use them."

Desite all of the government programs she's reached out to for help, Leti says her inability to find work and the strain on finances is now putting a strain on her family.

"They reach out to the soldier, but they're neglecting the family.  I'm just afraid it's hurting our kids in the long run," Leti said, holding back tears.

If you work for a company that is actively hiring wounded warriors or their spouses, we'd like to hear from you.  You can send an email to: melissagarcia@woaitv.com
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lovemycountry - 4/3/2011 8:45 PM
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I think the army has done great things for the wounded. We love and support all those who have served for our country, but this person demands to be given a government job! My suggestion is to take what job is available and work your way up. I know of several wounded warrior families who are doing quite well.

Gibber210 - 4/3/2011 6:11 AM
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If Uncle Sam wanted you to have a family he would have issued you one. That's how Obama sees it.

Nimitz - 4/2/2011 9:32 PM
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I think this family has ALREADY done their best and still giving it their best...they served our Country and remain loyal. Also, anyone out of work right now can tell you that it isn't easy out there...no matter what your skills. I don't doubt that the Sele family already knows this. And it's not always possible and certainly not easy for a family to up and move for a job. I am sure the Sele family, along with many others, are tired, frustrated, scared and just plain depressed by the fact that jobs are harder to find these days. I know because I've lived it. I could not imagine having to deal with the stress of finding work while also dealing with a Wounded Warrior in the family. With that said, I would hope my fellow Americans reading this news article will do the right thing and lend their moral support to this family thru their comments and refrain from any inflammatory remarks or empty advice. Thank them and wish them well.

LindaB - 4/2/2011 8:08 PM
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God Bless THIS family and ALL military families! The Government needs to Stop giving money to people that are NOT in America LEGALLY!!! THAT ALONE would be able to Care For ALL American Military. Sending millions to Pakistan every year should go to AMERICANS in need of it.OUR GOVERNMENT sends BILLIONS to OTHER countries, AND supports ILLEGALS...this is OUTRAGEOUS! US CITIZENS,CAN and SHOULD be taken care of FIRST.THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR THIS TO HAPPEN TO ANY MILITARY FAMILY!There are even Citizens that suck our welfare and foodstamp system ILLEGALLY! To those that CAN work, they SHOULD. They should get off their LAZY a@@es and WORK TWO JOBS if necessary!!! Our Military DESERVE being TAKEN CARE OF BEFORE ANY"system suckers" OR ILLEGALS,OR ANY OTHER COUNTRY. Thank you for your service SIR, The American CITIZENS love you!

Nimitz - 4/2/2011 5:01 PM
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I would like to thank the Sele family for their service to our Country and for the sacrifices they've made. It is very hard getting a job these days so I hope you will be employed soon. In the meantime, please don't give up...easier said than done I know but, you have each other's strength and love, which you must not be afraid to rely on. Thank each other every day. Also, you have many, many of us who are grateful to you and altho some of us may not be able to quite show it in the way you are needing right now, please know that we are thinking of you and everything you've done will not be forgotten. Please take a little time out each day to see just how valuable you are to each other and to our community, even when it seems your prayers are not being answered. Stay strong! I am sure you will find the resources you seek. I can't say when but things will get better if only you look for it. What you need will be there.

David Keeler - 4/2/2011 1:30 PM
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Likewise this may sound a little insensitive, but apply to the school districts for a job, not as a teacher (remember the school districts are downsizing), but as a school bus driver or assistant (and all the school districts are crying for drivers). Once you have your foot in the door, then, you can go for the teacher and or administrators jobs, who knows you may even like the drivers job. I will state flatly the SSgt is extremely well qualified to handle "a large commercial vehicle", "use a two way radio", and knows how to maintain discipline

whocares - 4/1/2011 5:20 PM
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Thank Obama for this one, because he has failed to provide for the people that help keep him in office. Any vet should not be denied a job, if your wife cant get a job, that should be discrimination

carmelaandrade - 4/1/2011 3:12 PM
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Some people get degrees in fields that have very few openings. May have to go get other training and a certificate in an area of plentiful work. So, you start at $14/hr. That is better than $0.00/hr. Medical field has tons of jobs....Coding/Billing, MA, Radiology Tech, etc. VA will pay for it. Down size. I had to move twice after I lost my job - to smaller places, but more affordable.....just for the time being.

Whitey - 4/1/2011 3:09 PM
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I salute you Sir!

djdavidp - 4/1/2011 3:00 PM
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So this may come off as insensitive to most but here it goes: First and foresmost, thank you for serving this country and allowing all of us to continue on while you were away. You deserve all that you have coming to you. Now that said, IF a person has college degreeS, plural not singular, why can't she find a job? I know why, because she thinks those degreeS, plural not singular, mean she starts off as a VP somewhere, company car and earning $100K a year. Wake up please. Take a job that fits your skill sets, work your way up the ladder and earn it, just as your husband did. Nearly EVERYONE is struggling and doing their very best to make it, not just you.
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